Spooky season or not, nothing’s scarier than misinformation — especially when it comes to your sexual health. STIs (sexually transmitted infections) are way more common than people think, and knowing the facts can keep things hot and healthy. Let’s break down a few truths that might give you chills (but could also save you a trip to the clinic).
From chlamydia and gonorrhea to HPV and herpes, there are over two dozen infections that can be passed through sexual contact. Some are bacterial (and treatable), while others are viral (and manageable with treatment).
Bottom line: Safe sex > scary sex. Condoms, dental dams, and regular testing are your best friends.
We love a good condom moment — they’re essential for reducing risk — but they’re not foolproof. The most common STI, genital herpes, can spread through skin-to-skin contact even when a condom’s on.
Still, don’t skip it! Condoms significantly lower your risk and show that you care about your partner’s health and your own. Wrap it up, bb!
Yes, you can catch STIs from oral sex — including herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HPV. Whether you’re giving or receiving, bacteria and viruses can still pass through contact with skin, fluids, or sores.
Pro tip: Barrier methods (like condoms or flavored dental dams) can make things both hot and safe.
That’s the trickiest part — you can feel totally fine and still have an infection. Many people don’t experience symptoms right away (or ever), which is why regular testing is key.
The only way to know for sure? Get tested. It’s quick, confidential, and empowering.
Use protection every time. Condoms and dental dams reduce risk for most STIs — even during oral or anal sex.
Get tested regularly. Every 3–6 months if you’re sexually active, or more often if you have multiple partners.
Talk with your partners. Being open about testing history and boundaries keeps everyone safe (and builds trust).
Get vaccinated. The HPV and Hepatitis B vaccines can prevent some of the most common infections.
Don’t ignore symptoms. Itching, burning, or unusual discharge? Get checked right away.
Safe sex doesn’t have to kill the vibe, it sets the vibe. When you protect yourself, you protect your partners too. And that’s the kind of confidence that’s seriously sexy.
